It's never going to happen!

That's how I feel right now :(. I've seen many families that have traveled around the same time as us, and even after us, (from the same region) and they already have court dates ( different agency ). There's another couple from the same agency as us that has been waiting since September to get a court date. That means that we could potentially be waiting at least another 3-4 months. Paperwork keeps expiring. A little girl sits in an orphanage waiting for a family. My mother in law is here visiting right now. She saved all of her vacation time so that she could come out here to meet the baby. We were originally told that it would be about 6 weeks, so mil booked her trip back in December. We were told a few weeks ago that we would most likely travel in March. After hearing this news, my oldest son booked a flight in April to come home and meet his little sister. He's supposed to be here from April 22nd- 29th. We are now finding out that people are already getting court dates in mid April, so Jared wont be able to meet the baby now. I'm frustrated! I want to know why it's taking so long for us to get a court date. Friday's are tough. I usually have a mini meltdown every Friday, because I know that we'll have to wait until Monday before we have the chance of hearing anything. I have this gut feeling that we're not going to get a court date for months and i've requested to go back to Russia over the next month or two to check on baby A. I'm hoping to get the approval from my SW soon. That's about it for now.